When you look back on your prom pictures, you’ll always be reminded either of how fantastic or how absolutely terrible your date was. If you don’t want to be remembered as “Oh, THAT date,” keep a few things in mind.
Guys
Don’t be too nervous about how you act. Trust me. Situations won’t feel awkward unless you make them.
There’s no harm in offering your arm, pulling the chair out or opening the door. Compliments wouldn’t hurt to boost your date’s confidence as well—considering that hours might have gone into preparation to achieve that level of stunning. Small acts of chivalry go a long distance to restore your date’s general faith in humanity.
Another tip to keep in mind is to respect your date’s parents. If you are thoughtful, you’ll make a lasting impression.
The sweetest moment I remember is when my date walked me to my door and apologized to my parents for running late. I’m not saying that you have to do this, but it helps ease the parents’ fears. (Seriously, if you do this, you’ll earn some serious brownie points.)
Girls
Girls are not exempt from being considerate. Since your date put in the effort to invite you to the dance, you should put in as much thought and concern.
Always remember to make the attempt to pay for your own ticket. If not, then return the favor by covering for something else (i.e. the corsage and boutonniere, the photographer.)
Everyone
The first rule to being a good date is to be mindful. Your attitude can make or break the dance experience.
Remember to shower, brush your teeth and smell nice so that your date doesn’t recoil in horror. All jokes aside, everyone appreciate a well-groomed date.
It’s also vital to determine if you’re simply going as friends, or as something more. If you’re going as something more significant, try to focus on your date. Don’t leave your date hanging alone, or an unwelcome third party might just swoop in and take your place.
Most importantly, be honest and communicate openly beforehand. This way, you’ll avoid any uncomfortable situations and you’ll both have a more enjoyable time.
If you don’t feel entirely at ease with any part of the dance or the arrangements you have made, do not be afraid to voice your opinions. Your date should value your boundaries and vice versa. With all this said, good luck and remember to have fun! It’s only prom, after all.